(Written on Monday... it's taken three whole days of trying to post it! Thank you for grace!)
I haven’t had a hot shower in almost a week. In some parts of the world, that’s nothing - people only get a shower once a month, if that. In my former American life, however, a week between showers would have been shocking - I showered every day as a matter of course. In our life here in Central Asia, a week without a shower is not so shocking, but considering what else has been happening lately, not having the comfort of a hot shower has felt like the straw that broke the camel’s back.
One reason we haven’t been taking showers is that our bathroom drain has been blocked for almost 2 weeks. The drain for the bathroom in this new house is right in the middle of the floor: I stick the washing machine water tube straight into it, and the bathtub drains into the same pipe (under the floor). This drainage pipe has been blocked for almost two weeks, which means any time we take a shower or do a load of laundry, the entire bathroom floor becomes a scummy lake of dirty water which takes several hours to subside and leaves a disgusting film of grunge behind.
The other reason for no showers lately is because we haven’t had reliable electricity. Because this town turns on its water only three times a day, we had to install an electric pump in the basement just to have constant running water in our house. So, if we don’t have svyet (electricity) to run our pump, we usually don’t have water either. And the electricity in this house is dodgy at best - in the two months since moving in we’ve had multiple days without power, due to sockets shorting out, blown fuses, and town power outages.
This Friday I spent the whole day looking after a slightly inebriated, pinch-hitter, second-rate svyetchi (electricity workman) we dragged in out of desperation (the best guy we know of is building 4 houses at once and couldn’t come for 10 days). This other guy confidently installed bigger fuses in the hall to handle a higher voltage in the house, and told us all our problems should be solved. And so, on Saturday morning I confidently turned on the oven to bake a cake for Ben’s birthday - but the hot water heater was also plugged in…
Thirty seconds later, the whole house went dark.
First thing: check the fuses. James ran outside to check the outside ones, while I ran into the hall to check our four new inside fuses - and sure enough, all four fuses were down. I flipped them on again one at a time, but I should’ve turned off the oven first… As I flipped the last one, which controls the kitchen wiring, there was a big -pop- and a burst of flame and smoke on the wall above me, where the ends of the kitchen wires come out. I shrieked, and stood stock-still for a minute wringing my hands, until James came inside with the news that the outside fuses were still on - but obviously, the inside wiring was burnt up, which meant we couldn’t hook up our generator. (During our first year of living here, we got so sick of dealing with unexpected town power outtages, sometimes lasting days at a time, that we finally bought a generator so we could have an independent power supply when needed. It’s come in very handy and saved a lot of stress, except when the power issue is within our own house, and then we can’t use it. Bummer.)
So we had another whole 24 hours with no power, until our original Russian svyetchi, a believer, arrived graciously on Sunday morning and missed church to fix our poor svyet. Three hours later, he told us it should be fine now: he rewired everything and put the kitchen and bathroom on a separate circuit… we rejoiced, thanked him profusely, served him lunch, drank tea, said goodbye.
We left right away for a belated worship service with our workmates, who live an hour and a half from us. When we got home at 9pm last night, we walked into the house, turned on a couple lights, plugged in the electric heater in the boys’ room because we’re having problems with our peechka (furnace), and James went into the bathroom to check our blocked drain. He’d been pouring package after package of local Drain-O and gallons of boiling water down there for days, and finally tonight, after running hot water from the water heater down the drain for about 10 minutes, he pronounced it - clear! Finally!
We both started dreaming of limitless hot showers and limitless loads of laundry - and just then, the house went dark.
Sighing, we went around relighting all our candles and were just about to check the fuses, when suddenly, outside our front window there was a big -boom- from the direction of the outside fuse box. As we ran into the living room to see what had happened, there was another louder -boom- and a light showed through the curtains. We were frantically fumbling to pull the curtains back when there was a third -pop- with a visible shower of sparks we could see through the window. If James had been a cursing man, there would have been a volley - as it was, he was exclaiming heatedly as he dashed for the door and ran outside to check, while I stood stunned in the living room having visions of electrical fires and the house burning down around our ears. He brought back the news that the outside fuse box itself was fine, but there was a big black burned patch in the wires above the fuse box, where they enter the house.
Great. Just great. No power, again. Another dark, cold evening of going to bed early, waking up to no lights in the house, no running water, no oven, no laundry and more things in the fridge going bad and starting to smell.
But this morning, instead of waking up to a cold, dark house, I woke up - to grace.
James kissed me on the cheek and woke me from a lovely dream. “Do we have any oatmeal?” he asks. (Due to my stress levels, I’d planned for Saturday’s guests and Sunday’s outing but forgot to buy things for breakfast. No eggs, no bread in the house meant all our usual breakfast options - eggs, toast, pancakes & french toast - were impossible…) But instead of getting frustrated, he just wanted to know where the oatmeal is. He’d already lit the candles, and was making coffee by candlelight. What a guy.
So I sleepily tell him where the oatmeal is, and as I’m getting out of bed, he says, “There’s a nice fire...” (yes, this house has a working living room fireplace, and I have a husband who builds great fires, thank God!), and so I wrap myself in my robe and a shawl and go toast my toes by the fire while I write down my lovely dream in my Morning Pages. He stirs oatmeal, I write warm by the fire, and the boys sleep and sleep and sleep… More grace.
It’s almost 8 o’clock before the first rumpled head appears, and I install Will in my chair by the fire with his headphones and his Jesus Storybook Bible in his lap, while I go pour coffee and fix oatmeal and steal another kiss in the kitchen from my wonderful man.
After James leaves for work, I dawdle around the silent, electricity-less house in my bathrobe, not willing to face yesterday’s mountain of dishes and convinced there’s no hot water anyway. At 9:00am (when they usually turn the water off), I half-heartedly go to start doing the dishes, and lo and behold, not only is there still water with good pressure (even without our pump), but the water is hot, because our hot water heater had electricity all day yesterday. I hastily plow into my mountain of dishes, enjoying warm water on my cold hands, ready for the water to drizzle off any second - but amazingly, after I finished scrubbing the last pan, there is still hot water coming out of the tap. I quickly check the temperature needle on the hot water heater - it’s in the middle, which means there’s actually plenty of hot water left…
Maybe I could have a shower? What a thought.
I spring into action. I hastily call instructions to the boys to keep eating oranges (they’re amazingly settled this morning after all that sleep, and being so affectionate with each other - more grace), race to the bedroom to grab my clothes, race back to the bathroom calling to Will to say “Mommy’s busy!” if anyone comes to the house, and close the bathroom door behind me.
And I have my first hot shower in almost a week - my first in almost two weeks without the floor flooding, thanks to the persistence of my wonderful husband... And even though I’m soaping and scrubbing and sudsing my hair frantically because I know the water could go off any second, the whole time I’m rejoicing. Grace, grace, grace.
And at the end of all the necessary scrubs, lo and behold, the water is still running and still hot, and so I stand under it for a long, glorious, extra minute or two, breathing in the warm steam of sheer grace. Ahhhh. Bliss.
A power-less, light-less, heat-less house, filled with grace. And the smell of oranges.
For my wonderful husband, and his grace towards me
For a house with a fireplace
For a warm fire
For our Russian svyetchi brother who is committed to making our house safe
For a wonderful time of worship and fellowship with our workmates yesterday
For settled, rested, happy sons
For oranges, and the time it takes 4 small hands to peel them (the length of a shower!)
For hot showers,
and unexpected grace.